Through the development of right understanding we shall know what is real and what is not real. There are two kinds of truths:
conventional truth (sammutti sacca)
ultimate truth (paramattha sacca)
Conventional truth are people, soul, body, animal, tree or chair, all the things we have been familiar with throughout our life, all the things we take for granted. Before we listened to the Dhamma and studied it we only knew about the conventional truth and we took it for real. When there is no right understanding one thinks that conventional truth is the only truth. Through the Dhamma we learn that conventional truth is not real in the absolute or ultimate sense. This does not mean that we should deny conventional truth and that we should avoid thinking of concepts. Concepts and ideas are in our ordinary language expressed by conventional terms and we need these to make ourselves understood. We cannot help thinking of concepts, it is conditioned. We all think of concepts but there can be more understanding of what is real and what is not real.
Namas, mental phenomena, and rupas, physical phenomena, are ultimate realities, paramattha dhammas. They are different from concepts and ideas. They can be directly experienced, one at a time, when they appear through their appropriate doorways. Seeing, for example, is a reality in the ultimate sense. It can be experienced by everybody who has eyesense; it has its own unalterable characteristic and there is no need to name it “seeing” in order to experience it. It is real for everybody. Anger is a reality; it has its own unalterable characteristic and it can be experienced by everybody when it appears, without the need to name it anger. Heat is a reality; it has its own unalterable characteristic and it can be experienced when it appears through the bodysense without the need to name it “heat”. Seeing, anger or heat are not concepts, we do not have to use any names in order to know them; they can be experienced when they appear, one at a time. Realities have each their own characteristic, their own function and their own manifestation, they are the same to all people. Paramattha dhammas are true for everybody and they can be directly experienced through one of the senses and through the mind-door. -- In the beginning it is difficult to know the difference between concepts (conventional truth) and realities (ultimate truth) . When we, for example, look at a flower and we like it, what are the realities? Usually we are only interested in the people and things we perceive, in concepts, and we are ignorant of realities. When we like a flower, there is pleasant feeling, but there are also other realities besides pleasant feeling. It seems that seeing and thinking of a flower with pleasure occur at the same time but this is not so. Seeing experiences visible object, not a flower. We don’t have to call what is visible “visible object” or “colour”, we don’t have to give it any name, but there is a reality that can be experienced through the eyesense. We can verify the truth at this moment, while there is seeing. This will lead to more understanding of what seeing is and to detachment from the idea of a self. Seeing is different from thinking of something, but if there were no seeing we could not think of things and people.Thinking is conditioned by seeing. There are different namas which each perform their own function and which are not self. When we look at a flower we take the flower for something which lasts, but in reality there is no flower which lasts. When we pick it there are different realities appearing through the bodysense; hardness, for example, may appear. When we smell its scent, there is only odour appearing through the nose. We are not used to knowing different objects, one at a time, through different doorways, but this is the only way to know the truth. Because of wrong view there are always people and things in our life which seem to last. We take the unreal for real, we are living in a dream.
We think of people and things. We should not avoid thinking of them, but we can have less misunderstandings about realities and concepts. Nama and rupa are not imaginary, they are real. We do not have to name them nama and rupa in order to distinguish them from each other.